Haiti X Japans quake?

looking back at japans and Haiti's earthquake, you can clearly see how organized and patient the people of japan was, they helped each other, never lost focus and reorganized themselves as soon as possible to start rebuilding. haiti in the other side was a mess. It was like each person was fighting for themselves, they didn't care about the needs of others, placing their own first.what im trying to say is that they didn't think about themselves as a nation unlike japan. why does this happen, I know there are cultural differences but why cant they all just organize themselves to start getting somewhere?